I agree wholeheartedly Bradley, however this is meant for people who are attracted to individuals who are emotionally unavailable, in a relationship, and who prefer living in fantasy over someone, or who prefer the anxiety and safety of being “in love” with someone who cannot actually give the pursuer a lasting and loving relationship, no matter now much they say they want it.

In my experience the people who pursue unavailable people have a core belief that they themselves are unworthy of love or believe that a relationship will mean suffocation, enmeshment, or a loss of self. Or, they have a belief that a lasting and loving relationship just isn’t possible.

Thanks for the comment.