I’ll add that women want a good looking guy who can lead, be emotionally intelligent and available, not enmesh with her, has demonstrable boundaries, is not thirsty, ok with going slow (cause he doesn’t need to get laid or lock her down), and be financially secure. And above all (read this Nice Guys) can be SPONTANEOUS! Grab her and dance with her in the middle of the super market. Don’t be boring by hiding who you are!