I agree with most of your points and would like to see a Part 2 or an expansion on men's and women's expectations vs. reality. Where I see most people get things wrong is placing the blame on the opposite sex, falling victim to confirmation bias, where "all women are…

A step-by-step guide using VMWare Fusion. Virtualization. If there’s one thing I consider a miracle of civilization, it’s the ability to run an OS on top of another OS. …

Do you want your listening skills hot or iced? “The chai latte; is it really sweet?” On a quick business trip, I was at a hipster coffee shop in Peoria, Arizona. The barista was a little pretentious, but we would soon be cool. “Uh…what’s the question behind the question?” …

The following could be why your relationships never last. — There’s a part of our minds, or more accurately, our hearts, that’s reserved for love and intimacy. Unfortunately, modern dating pools are filled to the brim with people who advertise themselves as available yet wear invisible signs saying, “Keep a safe distance at all times.” …

Stay away from the Friend Zone. — Most men scare women off like he’s wearing torn, dirty clothes while driving a big white van with no windows. It’s pretty sad. Most men get their “education” from books, social media, and porn, yet they grow up thinking that hiding their sexuality behind a friendly façade will do the…

Keep reading and you’ll understand. — Today, I want you to give up on your dream. Go on. Write it down on a piece of paper and throw it in the trash. Or better yet, burn it. “What!?” I know, I know. It’s not the thing we’ve been hearing about all our lives, read about on…

People remember you by how you made them feel. I used to be a terrible listener. I mean terrible. I might as well have had two mouths, three brains, and one ear. No, half an ear at best. The term “In one ear and out the other” would imply that…

A 5-step guide to a better life. — “Simple doesn’t have to mean easy.” — Philipp Keel What I’m about to share has come from six and a half years I’ve spent addressing my maladaptive behaviors and habits through various programs and countless self-help books. I’ve studied addiction, fantasy, Family Systems Theory, codependency, Attachment Theory, masculine/feminine dynamics, and…

The power of confirmation bias and how to use it to your advantage. — Stop bullshitting yourself. You don’t want to change. You’re comfortable. You’re doing what you know how to do even if you say you want a different life. If you really wanted to change, you would’ve done it by now, but the truth is, very few people really, truly want to…